Most men actually aren’t all that interested in anal stimulation. Sure it may feel good, as the anus is a tight hole they don’t get to use often, but that’s typically for a reason. Gay men claim it hits their own G-Spot, and say that heterosexual men are missing out, but odds are your man just isn’t ready to go down that path. So it’s safe to say that you can leave your man’s backdoor as an exit only, unless he specially asks. What else is he keeping a secret?
Men really do enjoy cuddling. Now don’t go expecting your man to throw on his footie pajamas and hop in bed for snuggles and long talks, that’s not what I mean. Most men enjoy the closeness and intimacy that cuddling provides, but they worry that their woman may see it as a sign of weakness. In fact, some of the times that men initiate sex it’s out of a desire for the closeness that they are unsure of how to get otherwise.
Women don’t own the corner market on body issues. Men are just as susceptible to feeling insecure about their bodies as we are. They feel the same pressure to look good, but they seem to find a better way of hiding it. A guy whose toting a keg where that six pack should be is just as sensitive about it as a woman packing some extra junk in her trunk.
Sometimes you need to clip the nip, which is to say that nipple play just isn’t for everyone. Not all men like to have their nipples fondled or played with at all. Some men feel nothing, while others may be hyper sensitive and don’t find it enjoyable. Try to be aware of how his body reacts when you go about it, and adjust your game accordingly.




