Are you stuck inside and feeling like you have very little control over what is going on in the world around you? Well we have some new sex positions for you to try to sooth your mind and put you back in charge. Even if you’ve been submissive in bed your whole life, sometimes you just need to switch things up a bit.

Seated Oral

Every good sex session should start out with some great foreplay, and today you are in the captain’s chair. So, sit down spread your legs and let your partner dive in. With you in a chair and your partner on their knees pleasing you, you’re unquestionably the boss. You can pull them closer or push them away, it is a definite foreplay power play position.

Lotus

Have the penetrating partner sit cross legged while the person taking charge straddles them. Because your partner has you in their lap, you get to squirm, twirl, and grind however you want. The lotus position is also really great for building intimacy, because you’re so physically close and having charge over that intimacy can make things even more intense.

Reverse Cowgirl

Because sometimes you don’t even want to look your partner in the eye, you just want to do your thing and use them (in the best possible and consensual way). Don’t forget that penises can be fractured, so make sure you’re communicating while you are riding your frustration out. giving your partner pleasure on your terms, while pleasuring yourself, without worrying about eye contact or what face you’re making. It’s win-win. You can step this position up a notch by laying forward with your legs towards your partners head. Not only will this allow deeper penetration but there will be quite a show of your backside for them to drool over.

Don’t forget sex is a great stress relief so even if you don’t try out a new position, you can still blow off some steam just heading into the bedroom.