You’ve made your profile, swiped right, and matched, so now what? Don’t worry if you don’t want to swing and miss before you even meet, we are here to help. This week’s Master Sexting Monday is full of advice for texting on dating apps like tinder.
Skip a basic “Hello”
When you send messages like “Hi, how are you?”, you know you would end up with an answer like “okay” or “fine”. You don’t want to find yourself boring or give her an idea that you’re just there for the small talk. You can be sure she receives a ton of boring openers like this on a daily. Be creative and try to make up your own opener that shows a bit of your personality, standing out is key. Be yourself and keep it short, simple, and sweet. No one wants to start off reading a page-long first message.
You should also avoid self-depreciation, even if it sounds like a compliment to you, women like confident men. If you’re going to open the conversation with a compliment, make sure that it can’t also be taken as an insult to you. If you don’t think you are worth their time, what makes them think you are.
Flirt, but don’t be aggressive
Don’t go overboard with your pickup lines. Making remarks on her body, sending something too sensual, or being very sarcastic should be avoided in the initial conversation. Women are easily turned off when guys are vulgar and try to start sexual chats prematurely. Be creative and playful but take extra care about the first impression you might make. You don’t want your match to feel uncomfortable in your first conversation. Absolutely avoid the gratuitous dick pick.
Happy swiping, make sure to check back every Monday for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting!
