Mondays are all about perfecting your sexting. Starting a sexting session is pretty easy, however after those first few sexts it can be difficult to keep it going. No one likes one sided sexts, so we have some suggestions this week for continuing a sexting session past the initial couples sexts.

Put the ball in their court

If you aren’t feeling very creative, or like you’ve run out of idea, try turning over the lead to your sexting partner. As them about their fantasies or any other simple question that will let their imagination run down dirtier paths than your words would.

Pull inspiration from the past

If you find yourself often sending the same sexts try drawing from the past: “I can’t stop thinking about that time we…” and then describe your favorite part of your last sexual encounter in detail.

A Picture is worth 1,000 words

As them for a sexy snap, or if they want to swap pics. This will give you time to come up with something new to say while also keeping things from turning away from sexual subjects. Asking to swap them also helps build the anticipation of seeing each other.

Ask for what you want

If you have run out of things to tell your partner you want to do to them flip the script and ask for things you want them to do to or for you. Maybe you have always fantasized about watching them get themselves off, or want them to spend more time focusing on teasing you. Telling them through sext is a great way to let them know while also keeping the conversation going.

When all else fails, try flattery

A simple compliment can go a long way. “I love when you talk like that,” Or “I love the way you feel inside.” Work as both responses to keep the conversation going and a great way to let your partner know what you really enjoy when you are together.

We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting.