No matter what kind of sex you’re having, moments of awkwardness are bound to happen. Sexting is no exception! If you are putting off sexting because you are worried you wont know how to handle those awkward moments when you aren’t together don’t worry, we have some simple solutions to help you feel more prepared.
Worried you’ll be lost for words?
When you’re having sex and you can’t think of what to say, it’s okay because there are plenty of other ways to occupy your mouth, but when you’re sexting words are a bit necessary. One of the sexiest things you can do in a moment where you’re speechless sexting, is send something else! Send an audio message of yourself moaning, or a sexy picture.
They seem disinterested
If you’re partner doesn’t seem totally involved in the moment, but you know they aren’t otherwise occupied treat it just like you would during sex. check in with your partner to ensure they’re enjoying the direction of your sext conversation. “Do you like that?” “What can I do for you?” “Tell me how you like it.” All work in a pinch to make sure they are just enjoying themselves and not uninterested.
Mood killers
If something really killed the mood and you don’t think you can reignite the spark let your partner know so you can pick things back up more successfully another time. “I’m sorry, but my boss keeps calling me and it’s totally killing my mood even though you had me super turned on before, can we try this again tomorrow night?” “I’m loving sexting you, but you continually asking me for photos is making me feel uncomfortable and is turning me off.” Don’t be afraid to communicate with your partner, it will make you both more comfortable.
We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting!
