Sex is great and all, but do you know what your fingers have that your dick doesn’t? Joints. Fingers can curl and bend and leave her begging for more literally in the palm of your hand.
Fingers against a clitoris, or inside a vagina, require some extra lubrication to not feel like sandpaper pushed up against her nether regions. Always generously lube up your partner’s fingers and the clitoris before moving forward.
Start slow, even though fingering is a form of foreplay, it needs foreplay. The vagina expands as its aroused so if you try to just right into knuckle deep fingering chances are it will be more pain than pleasure. One sexy move to try as you’re working on getting your partner hot, bothered, and ready for more is cupping. Cupping the vulva to let the heat of the hand transfer to the vulva can be very sensual, not only does it incorporate sensory temperature play but it is very teasing since you’re almost but not quite touching every bit of her.
Although the clit is often essential for reaching orgasm, you’ll also want to stimulate the very front of the vaginal opening, as it’s packed full of nerves. Try pressing your fingers around the vaginal opening. Perhaps slip a finger inside. Then back out to touch and tease the labia.
Once your partner is fully worked up its time to find a comfortable rhythm. Most women require this constant factor to reach climax, changing things up to often will build their tension but won’t typically push them over the edge. You can skip the rhythm all together and just apply internal pressure to the g spot and focus your efforts on small consistent circles on their clitoris. Since you are not moving your fingers, you will know the instant they reach climax as you will get to feel every ripple through your fingertips.
Remember that fingering someone’s vagina isn’t meant to look or feel like a jackhammering penis, so unless your partner specifically asks you to start punching them in the pussy you should probably take things easy.
