Silent sex is awkward. There are so many natural sounds that should be happening, but if you’re uncomfortable with the natural then a little dirty talk can go a long way. Keep your mind on the pleasure and not the noise. If you’re new to dirty talk and mostly just moan during sex, don’t worry. You don’t have to go from moan to major talking. We have some simple things you can say that won’t make you feel like you’re forcing it or going over the top!

First things first, keep in mind that almost all dirty talk sounds a bit silly outside of the bedroom. These just aren’t things you would say during your normal day to day activities. However moaned, whispered or even screamed at the right moment during the heat of sex and they can be super sexy.

Simple starters

If you are brand new to talking dirty you may want to try something clean to begin. “That feels amazing,” is a great way to break into it, especially if it does then your partner will know you really like whatever they are doing and do it more often. You don’t have to say it that way either just say what comes naturally to you, amazing, great, wonderful, so good etc. are all great choices.

Explicit

If you’ve dabbled in dirty talk before then you know a simple word or phrase here or there are simple and do wonders for the mood. “Oh my God,” or almost any of the four-letter words like f*ck or d*mn are great sexual enhancers. If you need a little extra filler you can always add an o or ah like “oh sh*t.”

Finishers

If you’ve been talking during the act as you get towards orgasm you may find your mind going blank. Letting your partner know what’s going on and what you want is perfect dirty talk for this empty head space-time. “That feels so good,” “harder/faster/deeper please,” and “I’m going to come.” Are perfect for the finish line of your sex sessions.

What’s your favorite thing to yell out in the moment? Let us know in the comments below!