Welcome back to the series that’s full of scripts and tips to help spice up your sext life! This week we have some important things for you to keep in mind when you spark up your next sext session. This advice comes from the pros like Pleasure coach Emily Morse. So make sure you take notes!
Slow and steady is uber sexy
“I’m always telling people when it comes to sex, to go five times slower than you think — the same goes for sexting. You don’t want to jump straight into sex without a warm-up, so treat your sexts the same way.” –Emily Morse So you should plan your sexting session to be a marathon not a sprint. Build it up real slow with some sexy innuendo and let things build gradually.
Sexting is a form of role play
Even if you aren’t pretending to different people you are role playing while sexting. Your role is that of a playful partner who is horny and ready to get into something freaky. Do Not Break Character. Once you decide what way your sexting session is going stay with it or you can ruin the flow. Your words, photos, and voice messages can all be used to paint a fantasy for your partner and arouse them to the point of orgasm. Don’t break characture. Stay focused and in the moment, worry about what to pick up from the store on the way home after you’re both done, not in the middle of sexting.
Keep it Comfortable
Kait Scalisi, MPH, a sex educator and founder of award-winning sex education platform Passion by Kait suggests couples only sext what they would be comfortable doing in person. If you really want to push your comfort zone make sure it’s not way out of your personal limits. “Sexting can be as innocent as a ‘Can’t wait to love on you tonight’ or as risqué as a nude selfie. Start with something that makes you just a little uncomfortable — but doesn’t make you want to run and hide.”
We will see you next week for more tips and tricks to help you master sexting.