What not to do During Phone Sex

Phone Sex Don'ts

If you have been following our advice on how to improve your phone sex life we have a few more tips. However unlike our previous posts these are some things you should avoid doing during the moments of passion.


Mood Killer

mood killers during phone sex

Phone sex is a bit more delicate than actual sex. Know something that dampers the mood between you and your partner during normal sex? Then avoid it completely. In person it is substantially easier to return to the right mind frame when you can kiss and touch each other. It is much more difficult over the phone. A big mood killer during phone sex is laughing. No matter what tickled you or sounded silly do your best to refrain from laughing. It is notorious for ruining phone sex. Also remember to pay attention to the tone of your voice. A soft sexy whisper will do a lot more to keep your partner in the mood than talking in your normal voice will.


Losing Focus

Losing focus during phone sex

If you are new to phone sex you may find yourself unsure at times. However avoid saying things like “I’m not sure what to say.” Or “I feel silly” these can instantly end the sex session. You also don’t need to fill every second with talking, this can make things a bit awkward. Keep in mind this is a form of mutual masturbation, most people don’t talk excessively while masturbating. Listening to your partner’s breathing and sounds they are making while pleasuring themselves can be extremely arousing, so take time to just enjoy these simpler moments of phone sex. More importantly, no matter what, don’t change the topic. It doesn’t matter how important whatever you just remembered is, it can wait until you are done to be said.


Liar, Liar, Pants on fire

Lying during phone sex

Honesty is always the best policy, especially when it comes to sex. That means don’t fake it! You also shouldn’t tell your partner you are performing an act when you aren’t, even more so if it’s something you wouldn’t be comfortable doing in person. Join in and be honest about what you’re doing and how it feels. It will help you both understand what you like and don’t like. Lying only sets you up for bad future sexual encounters, and can develop a sense of mistrust between you and your partner.

One thought on “What not to do During Phone Sex”

  1. After reading this I am so ready to indulge myself in some phone sex with a lot of mutual masturbation right now with my partner for a very sexy evening that can be shared between us for a really good yummy time.

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