You may be thinking how could our Seriously Strange Sex Series and the practice of chastity be related? To most people, the idea of chastity in the modern era seems archaic if not laughable.
But imposed refrain from sexual intercourse or release can be very sexual indeed. Buckle up because we’re about to take you on a wild ride into the world of male chastity.
Modern day chastity play is not limited to just abstaining from sex. Today chaste males and their key holders are couples who incorporate locking up of the family jewels for a set duration of time which is entirely at the key holder’s discretion.
Since most men are accustomed to touching themselves multiple times a day (when they use the restroom, sexual pleasure, adjustments etc.) this simple access prevention facilitates a profound yearning.
Chastity and relationships
Do you remember your early days of sexual exploration?
Back when the anticipation of a kiss goodnight would flip flop your stomach?
Where the intentional accidental brush of an arm would send electricity down your spine?
How about the person you hooked up with two Friday nights ago?
The memories are drastically different aren’t they?
Chastity brings back that intense built up sexual pleasure, rather than the momentarily satisfactory sex you can have with your partner of the moment.
Chastity and BDSM
While chastity can be a great tool to reignite the spark in a long term relationship, it is also immensely popular in the BDSM community.
Submissive’s find immense sexual pleasure and ultimate submission in surrendering completely their ability to receive sexual pleasure. It is also utilized by some Dominants as a punishment and reward system.
There are limitless dynamics involved in chastity, as it is as unique for each couple as the couples are themselves.
Chasity can vary from a simple “permission to cum” to intense “cock and ball torture” toys.
If you are curious about chastity play but have never used these type of toys, you may want to experiment with withholding orgasms before incorporating a chastity device.
As always with adult toy-play, be sure to read and strictly follow all safety and usage guidelines in conjunction with a well-established safe word in place.
We will see you next Saturday for some more seriously strange loving!