10 Unique Tips on What to Say During Phone Sex

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So you’re both hot & horny but somehow the conversation isn’t flowing as you’d hoped? You’ve got one hand busy but your mind is blank.

Don’t panic!

There are lots of ways to have phone sex. If one tack doesn’t work, switch it up! Keep these creative phone sex tips in mind & you’ll have a bag of tricks to choose from when engaging partners in erotic conversations of all kinds.

Ten Practical Phone Sex Tips

1. Sensually stretch:   Roll in the sheets and generally move your body so it feels good — and say so! Go ahead and Mmmm… and Ahhhh… and sigh into the phone. Stretching is contagious like yawning, so it’s a great way for phone sex partners to relax, synch up, and reinforce mood.

2. Tell Stories: Make stuff up, repeat what you’ve heard, or reminisce about remarkable sex you’ve had, yourself. Paint a picture with your words, provide as much detail as possible. Flavor your tales with romance, comedy, wistfulness… and passion. Engage your partner’s rapt attention, and finesse them exactly how you want them.

3. Make Dares:  Sexy challenges are a fun way phone sex partners can stretch out of comfort zones for maximum excitement! Do you dare? Put the phone on your pussy and squish it around. Flash the UPS man. Jerk off at your desk. Start small, see how far you get.

4. Role Play:  Be someone else for a change. Try an accent, assume a new identity or a radical personality change. Describe your scenario as clearly as possible, so your phone sex partner can easily join in and play along.

5. Masturbate:   Well duh — but keep in mind there are degrees of touching yourself while on the phone. Sometimes, you wanna be obvious about it — like, it’s the whole point. But other times when you’re having phone sex, you just want to stroke it quietly, while having a sexy discussion. If the conversation is good enough, you might cum privately and keep on talking until every erotic angle has been thoroughly explored. And then cum again.

6. Moan & Breathe Hard:   Oh those stretching sounds are luscious to hear but nothing compares to the huffs/puffs/moans/groans/gulps/gasps/etc. of genuine arousal. So if you feel something, say something. Phone sex is no time for inhibitions.

7. Lick Stuff:   Lick your fingers, lick your phone. Lick your nipple, if you can reach it. Lick a big sweet lollipop or tongue a mango or whatever makes your mouth water. Juicy sounds can be very arousing — so can the taste of your own bodily fluids. Share texture/flavor/amount with your partner.

8. Fuck Stuff:  Got a favorite sex toy? Bring it out, or try something “homemade” like a banana or a cucumber — or an electric toothbrush if you like a little tickle (or if you want the sound to add to your fantasy).  Don’t forget a big mirror — makes it easy to describe what you see!

9. Show Off:  Consider using a speaker phone & recording video of yourself while having phone sex — this way, you’ll be able to relive your encounter whenever you wish. Position the camera carefully to retain your anonymity, and share on amateur sites or post to your TalkToMe.com profile.

10. Take It To The Next Level:  Webcams are cheap, easy to use, and a picture really is worth a thousand words… You know you want to.

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